SOME SEX MISTAKES WOMEN MAKELadies, be honest: when your sex life becomes a little humdrum, out comes the mental catalog of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up,especially by understanding women’s bodies and what turns them on, making them easy targets in the blame game when sexual satisfaction starts to wane. And sure, they make their fair share of bedroom errors. But as the saying goes, it takes two to tango. As it turns out, top sex and relationship experts say that women make plenty of sex mistakes of their own.Do you agree with them ?.Below are some of their views on some common sex mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to get the satisfaction you so rightly deserve.
NOT INITIATING SEX FIRST.
By not initiating sex first with their partner,perhaps in other not to appear pushy or come on too strong for fear of being labeled aggressive,is one of the biggest mistakes women make.
Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship. Generally, men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.Holding onto outdated ideas about sex roles also inhibits satisfaction with our sexual relationships.
WHAT TO DO:
Show your interest by taking the first step from time to time. Your partner will likely appreciate it, and you may find a new level of satisfaction in taking responsibility for your sexual experience, something most people feels strongly women must do.
WORRY OVER OUT LOOK:
Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm. Don’t think about your fatness or how fat your belly is,or the makeup on your face. Concentrate on the pleasure of the act.You must give yourself permission to have an orgasm and enjoy your sexual fun.
Most men want their wives to abandon themselves in sex play, and that’s not likely if she is anxious about her physical concerns. So get HOW YOU LOOKS OFF YOUR SHOULDER and concentrate on the mean thing and doing them at the right time with the right person as long as he`s turns on by your method.
THOUGHT OF SEX BEING CASUAL:
Some women assumes casual sex with is what men deserves.You should let go of the old-fashioned notions, such as women are not sexual or that sex is just sex to men. No,you don`t reason like that because,for some men, sex is a very important act and there should not be minimize or a limit especially it has to do with one`s partner.
Men and women find sexual intimacy in the context of a committed relationship to be more satisfying.Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have the best quality and most frequent sex are married couples. That says a lot about the inadequacies of casual sex. Never assume that a man is not romantic. Two huge mistakes in this culture are that women are not sexual and that men are not as romantic [as women].
NOT KNOWING WHEN HE NEEDS IT
Not being able to know when to disturb or offer your partner sex is one of the factor of" SEX MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE. Sure, most teenage boys are ready and willing just about any time you ask for sex, but not true for men. The pressures of everyday life --family, work, bills -- can zap a man’s libido. This comes as a big surprise to many women, and often his lack of interest in sex is something we take personally.
It comes as such a shock [to women] that they just don’t believe it,especially when their partner says they aren’t in the mood for sex. They know themselves that they are not always interested in sex but they still love the man. But when they discover he doesn’t want to have sex, they think, ‘he doesn’t love me or he`s cheating on her.’ Not true. He just doesn’t want to have sex perhaps he is tired and this you must try to understand.
GUIDANCE
Not giving your partner guidance is one of the mistakes women make. Guidance is one of the ways of achieving a satisfying sexual relationship. Talking very directly about sex, what we like and don’t like can make us sometimes feel uncomfortable, even with a partner we’ve been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to, But it’s one of the ways ways to achieve a satisfying sexual relationship.
RESPONSIBILITIES
Men very much want to please a woman, but the woman must take responsibility for her sexual encounter.No man can bring a woman to orgasm if she doesn’t take responsibility for her sexual experience. Even the best lover can’t know what she needs without her letting him know.You can tell them in a way that doesn’t kill their ego, they will appreciate it and try doing their best to satisfy you.
GETTING EASILY UPSET
Getting easily upset when your man is not yielding to your request or suggestion in an issue which seems right to you,is one of the common mistakes women make. After a couple has been together for a while, it’s natural to want to spice things up with a little variety. Just because your man wants to try something new doesn’t mean he’s unhappy with you or your sex life. Just try and understand him and don’t take it personally.If you do, he could get discouraged and may not not be in the right mood to satisfying you sexual that very moment.
ADVISE TO COUPLES
Nobody should ever feel obligated to do something they don’t want to do in the personal and intimate area of sexuality. If your man asks you about trying something that’s outside of your morals, make it clear that it’s off limits for you and explain why. Of course, do this in a loving way as best you can. If it is something that is not really a moral issue for you but you still don’t want to, again explain why. If it is a simply a startling request and you’re initially uneasy about it, try not to overreact. Instead, let him know you need some time to think about it.”
DID YOUR PARENTS TELL YOU THIS ?
Did your parents tell you this, because that is what mine told me?
That a stone is enough to break a glass, one sentence is enough to break a heart, one second is enough to fall in love, and one misunderstanding is sufficient to break a relationship.
Friendship is the rainbow between two hearts, sharing two characters, FIRST, "I LIKE YOU", then " I LOVE YOU",
Now i`m afraid to lose you. If you don`t send this to everyone on your list,you may lose the person you love. Sorry i don`t wanna lose the person i love. cheers...
That a stone is enough to break a glass, one sentence is enough to break a heart, one second is enough to fall in love, and one misunderstanding is sufficient to break a relationship.
Friendship is the rainbow between two hearts, sharing two characters, FIRST, "I LIKE YOU", then " I LOVE YOU",
Now i`m afraid to lose you. If you don`t send this to everyone on your list,you may lose the person you love. Sorry i don`t wanna lose the person i love. cheers...
TO LOVE WITHOUT CONDITION
Love has been defined or interpreted in several ways. Many thing has been done or applied as regards to this four letter words "LOVE" to suits those involve.
However, to some people, the best way to love is TO LOVE WITHOUT CONDITION, if the given relationship must withstand the test of time.Any conditional love is never a TRUE LOVE.
To love someone without any condition,talk without any intention,give a gift without any reason, and to care without expectation--is the heart of a TRUE FRIEND.
Sweet words are easy to say, sweet things are easy to buy, but sweet people are difficult to find! Life ends when you stop "DREAMING",hope ends when you stop believing,love ends when you stop caring, friendship ends when you stop sharing. So share this with whom ever you consider a friend or beloved.
However, to some people, the best way to love is TO LOVE WITHOUT CONDITION, if the given relationship must withstand the test of time.Any conditional love is never a TRUE LOVE.
To love someone without any condition,talk without any intention,give a gift without any reason, and to care without expectation--is the heart of a TRUE FRIEND.
Sweet words are easy to say, sweet things are easy to buy, but sweet people are difficult to find! Life ends when you stop "DREAMING",hope ends when you stop believing,love ends when you stop caring, friendship ends when you stop sharing. So share this with whom ever you consider a friend or beloved.
UNHAPPY PEOPLE
DO YOU KNOW; Those who do not sing,
Those who do not dance,
Those who do not engage in any sporting
activities or good time,
Those who do not watch movies,
Those who do not listen to
music, and most especially,
Those who do not laugh are always unhappy?
Those who do not dance,
Those who do not engage in any sporting
activities or good time,
Those who do not watch movies,
Those who do not listen to
music, and most especially,
Those who do not laugh are always unhappy?
CROSS GENERATION RELATIONSHIP, ANY WAY OUT?
Cross genration relationship could be seen as a situation where the older man or woman engages the younger ones, and the younger ones after the older ones in a relationship. This act as expressed by some people is eating fast in this our generation nowadays. Many things have been said and done against this unusual behaviour by many religious leaders and organisations.
They sees it not just IMMORAL ACT,but crazy on the side of our society and if left unchecked, could negate the intellect, aspiration-vision-dream, social and well being of our society especially, on the side of the youths.
However,for those who founds solace in this type of relationship,they sees nothing wronge in it and so, they are proud being part of it in as much they derives fun from it.
Some poeple are also of the opinion that dating younger women has its problem hence, they goes after the older ones. They said older male lover nurtures his ego with his younger lover. This gives him the feeling that though, he is pilling up the age, he still looks young,attractive and sexy enough to win the attention of a young lady.
Though at the back of his mind, he knows that the size of his pause gave him mileage in advantage.
DRESSING: There are also life style of dressing that young people engage in these days, this continues to excite the sexuality and morality ot most people. Unlike those days when people dressed responsibly, you don`t begin to think about sex when you see someone passby you. But nowadays, what do you have? people walk about dressed "TO KILL: all the time.
Go to the restaurants, they are there. In the bus, they are there. At home, they are there. On the newspapers and magazines, they are there. On the television and internets, you see them. No matter how discipline you are, except you have some problems,some of this things will continue to remind you about sex and that it is available.
We are living in a society where sex is almost free for the asking now. Where you don`t ask, the girls themselves will take you on. And in some occasions, some celebrated clergy men and respected members of the society has fallen prey to this monster called "SEX", and it will only take a man of great courage, discipline, and dedication to overcome this.
WHY DON`T MEN GO FOR WOMEN OF THEIR AGE MATES OR OLDER?
This is one of the questions asked by a lady who feels men always go for younger women. Is it because there are no elderly women out there looking for men? Certainly no, some of them do it just because of their ego.In some cases, they take the advantage of the problem in their marriage and engages in post marital infidelity.Some homes living happily with their wives still indulge in this act because they feel it gives then joy. But there are no justification for using this as cause for cross generation relationships. It is just a matter of ego. A stupid inmate desire to satisfy an uncontrolable sexual urge. It is a very big social problem that can lead to social embarrassment.
CROSS GENERATION RELATIONSHIP, The role of age gap: Its always a hot topic to discuss whether age gaps are a good thing or a bad thing. For some people, they simply mean two people who curently have a thing for one another. While some argue that an age gap relationship will never last. Its a fair argument. With an age gap, two people can grow apart very easily as they go through the different phases of their lives. Same thing applies to couples of the same age. One thing to consider is that, most relationships fail at some point anyway. It doesn`t matter if there is an age gap or not, even when some people think its wrong for obvious reasons. In the end, its still a relationship and all relationships will come with their own issues.
Some people are of the view that, cross generation relationships are good because an older man is like a father whan in relationship with a young woman. It may be true, but is there anything wrong with it? "YES", some people will say, because in actual fact, i don`t know of any woman who will want to date her father. However, because a man`s status rises with age, the older he gets, the better in view and behaviour. Women like men who are of high status and high quality, and these makes older men just perfect. As he gets older, he discovers and realises who he is, he is more comfortable with himself and has experience on his side. He can be a better lover because he is more confident. He is a better leader and decision maker.
They sees it not just IMMORAL ACT,but crazy on the side of our society and if left unchecked, could negate the intellect, aspiration-vision-dream, social and well being of our society especially, on the side of the youths.
However,for those who founds solace in this type of relationship,they sees nothing wronge in it and so, they are proud being part of it in as much they derives fun from it.
Some poeple are also of the opinion that dating younger women has its problem hence, they goes after the older ones. They said older male lover nurtures his ego with his younger lover. This gives him the feeling that though, he is pilling up the age, he still looks young,attractive and sexy enough to win the attention of a young lady.
Though at the back of his mind, he knows that the size of his pause gave him mileage in advantage.
DRESSING: There are also life style of dressing that young people engage in these days, this continues to excite the sexuality and morality ot most people. Unlike those days when people dressed responsibly, you don`t begin to think about sex when you see someone passby you. But nowadays, what do you have? people walk about dressed "TO KILL: all the time.
Go to the restaurants, they are there. In the bus, they are there. At home, they are there. On the newspapers and magazines, they are there. On the television and internets, you see them. No matter how discipline you are, except you have some problems,some of this things will continue to remind you about sex and that it is available.
We are living in a society where sex is almost free for the asking now. Where you don`t ask, the girls themselves will take you on. And in some occasions, some celebrated clergy men and respected members of the society has fallen prey to this monster called "SEX", and it will only take a man of great courage, discipline, and dedication to overcome this.
WHY DON`T MEN GO FOR WOMEN OF THEIR AGE MATES OR OLDER?
This is one of the questions asked by a lady who feels men always go for younger women. Is it because there are no elderly women out there looking for men? Certainly no, some of them do it just because of their ego.In some cases, they take the advantage of the problem in their marriage and engages in post marital infidelity.Some homes living happily with their wives still indulge in this act because they feel it gives then joy. But there are no justification for using this as cause for cross generation relationships. It is just a matter of ego. A stupid inmate desire to satisfy an uncontrolable sexual urge. It is a very big social problem that can lead to social embarrassment.
CROSS GENERATION RELATIONSHIP, The role of age gap: Its always a hot topic to discuss whether age gaps are a good thing or a bad thing. For some people, they simply mean two people who curently have a thing for one another. While some argue that an age gap relationship will never last. Its a fair argument. With an age gap, two people can grow apart very easily as they go through the different phases of their lives. Same thing applies to couples of the same age. One thing to consider is that, most relationships fail at some point anyway. It doesn`t matter if there is an age gap or not, even when some people think its wrong for obvious reasons. In the end, its still a relationship and all relationships will come with their own issues.
Some people are of the view that, cross generation relationships are good because an older man is like a father whan in relationship with a young woman. It may be true, but is there anything wrong with it? "YES", some people will say, because in actual fact, i don`t know of any woman who will want to date her father. However, because a man`s status rises with age, the older he gets, the better in view and behaviour. Women like men who are of high status and high quality, and these makes older men just perfect. As he gets older, he discovers and realises who he is, he is more comfortable with himself and has experience on his side. He can be a better lover because he is more confident. He is a better leader and decision maker.
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN TO YOU?
Love,in this sense of an unlimited kindness towards all others,is held to be the ultimate perfection of the human spirit because it is said to both glorify and reflect the nature of God. It is most extreme such love can be sacrificial.
The word "LOVE" can refer to a variety of diffierence feelings.
Love is of any of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong
affection( STATES AND ATTITUDE)ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal feelings.
Love is an emotion build from two or more feelings and thoughts about our feelings.
The diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistly define,aven compared to other emotional states.
Love could be refer to deep feeling of tenderly caring for another person or Love in its form,acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationship.
CAN YOU TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE FOLLOWING?
If you are looking for love, would you recognise it if you found if?
*Can you tell the differnce between love and infantuation?
*Between love and attraction?
*Between love and sexual desire?
*Between love and frienship?
*Between sex and intimacy?
*Between a good relationship and one that is only pleasurable?
If you want to learn to love better,
start with a friend who you hate.
When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you are scared he/she won`t love you anymore, but then you get surprised because not only does he/she still love you, he/she loves you even more.
Love is when someone hurts you and you get so mad but don`t yell at that person because you know it would hurt his/her feelings.
The word "LOVE" can refer to a variety of diffierence feelings.
Love is of any of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong
affection( STATES AND ATTITUDE)ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal feelings.
Love is an emotion build from two or more feelings and thoughts about our feelings.
The diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistly define,aven compared to other emotional states.
Love could be refer to deep feeling of tenderly caring for another person or Love in its form,acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationship.
CAN YOU TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE FOLLOWING?
If you are looking for love, would you recognise it if you found if?
*Can you tell the differnce between love and infantuation?
*Between love and attraction?
*Between love and sexual desire?
*Between love and frienship?
*Between sex and intimacy?
*Between a good relationship and one that is only pleasurable?
If you want to learn to love better,
start with a friend who you hate.
When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you are scared he/she won`t love you anymore, but then you get surprised because not only does he/she still love you, he/she loves you even more.
Love is when someone hurts you and you get so mad but don`t yell at that person because you know it would hurt his/her feelings.
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