Some experiment could be dangerous

It`s true that people has difference way of solving their problems.and as such,we are faced with the reality of decisions we make in our family or relationship.
In some families, couples are faced with the issue of child bearing especially in some African States.
In th cause of trying to achive conception after some years of marriage, a lot of experiment would be applied and in a situation where there is a failure, the woman would accuse the man
of non performance or the man pointing accusing finger to the woman of being responsible for
their plight.
The inability of the man to satisfy his wife on love making is another thing that has lead to all kinds of experiment, and thus, some women capitialises on this to engage in being infidel.
The use of drugs or pornogrphics material in this experiment are very much helpful ,but sometines backfires especially, when it`s discovered that the man was only having some phycological effect which doesn`t really mean being"IMPOTENT".
Some women have recommended such methods to their man, but instead of correcting the defficiency, everything proved abotive or even turn to worste condition.
Be careful in your experiment, i know of a lady who got married for over 3years ,
the problem is that ,their love life has got a bit boring and predictable , so she bought for her man a sex book which she plans to give him as a birthday present.she even planned to surprise him with a few new moves on the morning of his birthday to put him in the mood.Good her intention might seem,but how the man would welcome it is another thing especially, presenting him with such kind of package on his birthday as a present.
However, i think it would be good if both parties feel their sex life is dull and needs to reactivate,
but if your man feels guilty or think you feel he`s to blame, bringing up the subject on the morning of his birthday may backfire, and you will probably have a miserable day.
So be careful on how you experiments or your marriage or relationship could be in danger.