How would you feel dating a woman who has told you she aspires for a good time than you can offer? would you keep pleading with her even after giving her the best you could with the hope she would understand one day that you realy meant well for her?.Just because both of you are into different field she feels there are better life out there than you can offer.Do you think there is need to try to force her to stay with you when she sees ne future to herself in you? I think the best answer is "NO",she has told you that you are not in a position to give her what she wants from life.Even if you are hurt from what she said,what would you do? Do you commemds her or condemns her for being honest to you?.Changing your carear to suit her wouldn`t make any sense in as much she doesn`t have the type of love you require from a woman to make you succeed in your relationship.
As a man,you require a woman to support your dream and visions,to believe in you,understands what makes you feel happy and unique.The worst kind of life a man can live is to have a woman who doesn`t believe in him,his dreams and visions.
Dare continue dating a woman who openly told you she sees no future in you would diminish you personally if you persist on having her.The truth is, even if you succeed in making her stay,you will never be able to satisfy her or make her feel happy and will only end up struggling against her desires throuhout your life time.
The grass of your vision will never be green as as the grass of her dream.
However,rather than waste your time on a mission without a vision,therby brings pains and sorrow to yourself,let her go,the pains of today would one day dissappear when you finds the right woman who is ready to make you feel happy and achieve your goals in life.Her stands is enough to tell you she is being influenced by another kind of relationship,an attraction that has opened her eyes to many faults she perceives from you. So this is enough for you to start looking for another who would make life easy for you and assist you achieve your desired dreams.
HAVE VISION AND GROW BEING STATEMANLIKE
To live without a vision is to be totally in darkness. Some people failed to reach their peak in life because they have no vision A mission without a vision would bring failure.Could you embark on a journey without knowing your destination or aim of such journey?, of course,you don`t!
Have the ability that you are going to make it despite some difficulties you met on your way.It`s only equiping to face your challanges.Not being able to reach your peak as or when expected shouldn`t make you feel dicouraged in as much as you knows what your journey stands for.
Some people are seen or called "GREAT" because they were able to push forward and saw their vision come through. You could be one of them today if you could have the courage and say to yourself,""I WILL MAKE IT", and pursue it.
SOME TIPS TO HELP YOU ACHIEVE YOUR VISION
ABILITY Being able to articulate what you raely want is one factor that will help you to succeed in life.Believe that the ability is in you and in as much others made it, you could as well make it.
FAITH Being faithful to what you aspire for leads to mission fulfilled.You have to believe in yourself to be able to see your dream come through.Not being faithful means you do not believe in what you are pursuing which might lead to vision unfulfilled.
POSITIVITY Speak,think,eat,drink and sleep on positivity over your ambition.
Never speak or have negative thoughts over your vision,negativity brings failure,while positivity brings success and success to excellence.
RELATIONSHIPThis could mean peer groups, dates,lover,colleques,friends,family,etc.The kind of relationship you keeps is one factor which may make or mar you desire to achieving your vision in life.Remember the saying that;"BIRDS OF THE SAME FLOCKS FLEWS TOGETHER". Get yourself around those who are in a position to help you realise your dream.If you are a student,you do not grow strong and better by associating only with those below your standard,you need those above your standard to grow and see your vision come through.Drop any body or thing which might destroy your vision.
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Have the ability that you are going to make it despite some difficulties you met on your way.It`s only equiping to face your challanges.Not being able to reach your peak as or when expected shouldn`t make you feel dicouraged in as much as you knows what your journey stands for.
Some people are seen or called "GREAT" because they were able to push forward and saw their vision come through. You could be one of them today if you could have the courage and say to yourself,""I WILL MAKE IT", and pursue it.
SOME TIPS TO HELP YOU ACHIEVE YOUR VISION
ABILITY Being able to articulate what you raely want is one factor that will help you to succeed in life.Believe that the ability is in you and in as much others made it, you could as well make it.
FAITH Being faithful to what you aspire for leads to mission fulfilled.You have to believe in yourself to be able to see your dream come through.Not being faithful means you do not believe in what you are pursuing which might lead to vision unfulfilled.
POSITIVITY Speak,think,eat,drink and sleep on positivity over your ambition.
Never speak or have negative thoughts over your vision,negativity brings failure,while positivity brings success and success to excellence.
RELATIONSHIPThis could mean peer groups, dates,lover,colleques,friends,family,etc.The kind of relationship you keeps is one factor which may make or mar you desire to achieving your vision in life.Remember the saying that;"BIRDS OF THE SAME FLOCKS FLEWS TOGETHER". Get yourself around those who are in a position to help you realise your dream.If you are a student,you do not grow strong and better by associating only with those below your standard,you need those above your standard to grow and see your vision come through.Drop any body or thing which might destroy your vision.
Please share your though on this topic with me by droping your comment.
PUTTING OURSELVES AT SERVICES OF OTHERS
Sometimes we complained how unjustly we`re treated by those we thought would show love to us.but the question is ,"who hates who,and why hate rather than love"?.if we continue to complain and cry aloud without taking measures to calm this ugly scenreo,we might end up complaining to eternity.
Not withstanding,if as a speaker,you speak in words which seems to come from God...impacting positively in the life of people, if as a helper you render help as though every action was done at God`s LOVE so that in everything we do He is glorified, if only we could keep a calm and sober mind,above all never let our love for each other grow insincere,"SINCE LOVE COVERS ALL MOST EVERYTHING", If with heart full of love we could welcome each other into our lives without grumbling, like a good steward resposible for all his guest and put ourselves at the services of others,the world will be troble free for us to live.
Not withstanding,if as a speaker,you speak in words which seems to come from God...impacting positively in the life of people, if as a helper you render help as though every action was done at God`s LOVE so that in everything we do He is glorified, if only we could keep a calm and sober mind,above all never let our love for each other grow insincere,"SINCE LOVE COVERS ALL MOST EVERYTHING", If with heart full of love we could welcome each other into our lives without grumbling, like a good steward resposible for all his guest and put ourselves at the services of others,the world will be troble free for us to live.
DON`T EXPECT MUCH FROM LIFE.
Don`t expect much from life,expectations hurts.
When you don`t expect,every moment is a surprise and every
surprise brings happiness.
Appreciate life itself even if it`s not a bed of roses.
contentment is not fulfilment of what you wish,
but appreciation of what you have.
When you don`t expect,every moment is a surprise and every
surprise brings happiness.
Appreciate life itself even if it`s not a bed of roses.
contentment is not fulfilment of what you wish,
but appreciation of what you have.
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