SOME SEX MISTAKES SOME WOMEN DO

SOME SEX MISTAKES WOMEN MAKELadies, be honest: when your sex life becomes a little humdrum, out comes the mental catalog of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up,especially by understanding women’s bodies and what turns them on, making them easy targets in the blame game when sexual satisfaction starts to wane. And sure, they make their fair share of bedroom errors. But as the saying goes, it takes two to tango. As it turns out, top sex and relationship experts say that women make plenty of sex mistakes of their own.Do you agree with them ?.Below are some of their views on some common sex mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to get the satisfaction you so rightly deserve.

NOT INITIATING SEX FIRST.
By not initiating sex first with their partner,perhaps in other not to appear pushy or come on too strong for fear of being labeled aggressive,is one of the biggest mistakes women make.

Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship. Generally, men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.Holding onto outdated ideas about sex roles also inhibits satisfaction with our sexual relationships.

WHAT TO DO:
Show your interest by taking the first step from time to time. Your partner will likely appreciate it, and you may find a new level of satisfaction in taking responsibility for your sexual experience, something most people feels strongly women must do.

WORRY OVER OUT LOOK:
Thinking about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself and ruins your chances of achieving an orgasm. Don’t think about your fatness or how fat your belly is,or the makeup on your face. Concentrate on the pleasure of the act.You must give yourself permission to have an orgasm and enjoy your sexual fun.

Most men want their wives to abandon themselves in sex play, and that’s not likely if she is anxious about her physical concerns. So get HOW YOU LOOKS OFF YOUR SHOULDER and concentrate on the mean thing and doing them at the right time with the right person as long as he`s turns on by your method.

THOUGHT OF SEX BEING CASUAL:
Some women assumes casual sex with is what men deserves.You should let go of the old-fashioned notions, such as women are not sexual or that sex is just sex to men. No,you don`t reason like that because,for some men, sex is a very important act and there should not be minimize or a limit especially it has to do with one`s partner.

Men and women find sexual intimacy in the context of a committed relationship to be more satisfying.Numerous research studies make it very clear that the people who have the best quality and most frequent sex are married couples. That says a lot about the inadequacies of casual sex. Never assume that a man is not romantic. Two huge mistakes in this culture are that women are not sexual and that men are not as romantic [as women].

NOT KNOWING WHEN HE NEEDS IT
Not being able to know when to disturb or offer your partner sex is one of the factor of" SEX MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE. Sure, most teenage boys are ready and willing just about any time you ask for sex, but not true for men. The pressures of everyday life --family, work, bills -- can zap a man’s libido. This comes as a big surprise to many women, and often his lack of interest in sex is something we take personally.

It comes as such a shock [to women] that they just don’t believe it,especially when their partner says they aren’t in the mood for sex. They know themselves that they are not always interested in sex but they still love the man. But when they discover he doesn’t want to have sex, they think, ‘he doesn’t love me or he`s cheating on her.’ Not true. He just doesn’t want to have sex perhaps he is tired and this you must try to understand.

GUIDANCE
Not giving your partner guidance is one of the mistakes women make. Guidance is one of the ways of achieving a satisfying sexual relationship. Talking very directly about sex, what we like and don’t like can make us sometimes feel uncomfortable, even with a partner we’ve been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to, But it’s one of the ways ways to achieve a satisfying sexual relationship.

RESPONSIBILITIES
Men very much want to please a woman, but the woman must take responsibility for her sexual encounter.No man can bring a woman to orgasm if she doesn’t take responsibility for her sexual experience. Even the best lover can’t know what she needs without her letting him know.You can tell them in a way that doesn’t kill their ego, they will appreciate it and try doing their best to satisfy you.

GETTING EASILY UPSET
Getting easily upset when your man is not yielding to your request or suggestion in an issue which seems right to you,is one of the common mistakes women make. After a couple has been together for a while, it’s natural to want to spice things up with a little variety. Just because your man wants to try something new doesn’t mean he’s unhappy with you or your sex life. Just try and understand him and don’t take it personally.If you do, he could get discouraged and may not not be in the right mood to satisfying you sexual that very moment.

ADVISE TO COUPLES
Nobody should ever feel obligated to do something they don’t want to do in the personal and intimate area of sexuality. If your man asks you about trying something that’s outside of your morals, make it clear that it’s off limits for you and explain why. Of course, do this in a loving way as best you can. If it is something that is not really a moral issue for you but you still don’t want to, again explain why. If it is a simply a startling request and you’re initially uneasy about it, try not to overreact. Instead, let him know you need some time to think about it.”