CROSS GENERATION RELATIONSHIP, ANY WAY OUT?

Cross genration relationship could be seen as a situation where the older man or woman engages the younger ones, and the younger ones after the older ones in a relationship. This act as expressed by some people is eating fast in this our generation nowadays. Many things have been said and done against this unusual behaviour by many religious leaders and organisations.

They sees it not just IMMORAL ACT,but crazy on the side of our society and if left unchecked, could negate the intellect, aspiration-vision-dream, social and well being of our society especially, on the side of the youths.

However,for those who founds solace in this type of relationship,they sees nothing wronge in it and so, they are proud being part of it in as much they derives fun from it.

Some poeple are also of the opinion that dating younger women has its problem hence, they goes after the older ones. They said older male lover nurtures his ego with his younger lover. This gives him the feeling that though, he is pilling up the age, he still looks young,attractive and sexy enough to win the attention of a young lady.
Though at the back of his mind, he knows that the size of his pause gave him mileage in advantage.

DRESSING: There are also life style of dressing that young people engage in these days, this continues to excite the sexuality and morality ot most people. Unlike those days when people dressed responsibly, you don`t begin to think about sex when you see someone passby you. But nowadays, what do you have? people walk about dressed "TO KILL: all the time.

Go to the restaurants, they are there. In the bus, they are there. At home, they are there. On the newspapers and magazines, they are there. On the television and internets, you see them. No matter how discipline you are, except you have some problems,some of this things will continue to remind you about sex and that it is available.
We are living in a society where sex is almost free for the asking now. Where you don`t ask, the girls themselves will take you on. And in some occasions, some celebrated clergy men and respected members of the society has fallen prey to this monster called "SEX", and it will only take a man of great courage, discipline, and dedication to overcome this.

WHY DON`T MEN GO FOR WOMEN OF THEIR AGE MATES OR OLDER?
This is one of the questions asked by a lady who feels men always go for younger women. Is it because there are no elderly women out there looking for men? Certainly no, some of them do it just because of their ego.In some cases, they take the advantage of the problem in their marriage and engages in post marital infidelity.Some homes living happily with their wives still indulge in this act because they feel it gives then joy. But there are no justification for using this as cause for cross generation relationships. It is just a matter of ego. A stupid inmate desire to satisfy an uncontrolable sexual urge. It is a very big social problem that can lead to social embarrassment.

CROSS GENERATION RELATIONSHIP, The role of age gap: Its always a hot topic to discuss whether age gaps are a good thing or a bad thing. For some people, they simply mean two people who curently have a thing for one another. While some argue that an age gap relationship will never last. Its a fair argument. With an age gap, two people can grow apart very easily as they go through the different phases of their lives. Same thing applies to couples of the same age. One thing to consider is that, most relationships fail at some point anyway. It doesn`t matter if there is an age gap or not, even when some people think its wrong for obvious reasons. In the end, its still a relationship and all relationships will come with their own issues.

Some people are of the view that, cross generation relationships are good because an older man is like a father whan in relationship with a young woman. It may be true, but is there anything wrong with it? "YES", some people will say, because in actual fact, i don`t know of any woman who will want to date her father. However, because a man`s status rises with age, the older he gets, the better in view and behaviour. Women like men who are of high status and high quality, and these makes older men just perfect. As he gets older, he discovers and realises who he is, he is more comfortable with himself and has experience on his side. He can be a better lover because he is more confident. He is a better leader and decision maker.