How would you feel dating a woman who has told you she aspires for a good time than you can offer? would you keep pleading with her even after giving her the best you could with the hope she would understand one day that you realy meant well for her?.Just because both of you are into different field she feels there are better life out there than you can offer.Do you think there is need to try to force her to stay with you when she sees ne future to herself in you? I think the best answer is "NO",she has told you that you are not in a position to give her what she wants from life.Even if you are hurt from what she said,what would you do? Do you commemds her or condemns her for being honest to you?.Changing your carear to suit her wouldn`t make any sense in as much she doesn`t have the type of love you require from a woman to make you succeed in your relationship.
As a man,you require a woman to support your dream and visions,to believe in you,understands what makes you feel happy and unique.The worst kind of life a man can live is to have a woman who doesn`t believe in him,his dreams and visions.
Dare continue dating a woman who openly told you she sees no future in you would diminish you personally if you persist on having her.The truth is, even if you succeed in making her stay,you will never be able to satisfy her or make her feel happy and will only end up struggling against her desires throuhout your life time.
The grass of your vision will never be green as as the grass of her dream.
However,rather than waste your time on a mission without a vision,therby brings pains and sorrow to yourself,let her go,the pains of today would one day dissappear when you finds the right woman who is ready to make you feel happy and achieve your goals in life.Her stands is enough to tell you she is being influenced by another kind of relationship,an attraction that has opened her eyes to many faults she perceives from you. So this is enough for you to start looking for another who would make life easy for you and assist you achieve your desired dreams.
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