THINK TWICE BEFORE GOING TO THE ALTER

Do you wish to see yourself wedded on the alter in a church , which is the dream and aspiration of every true christian ? Do you hope to make a happy home and see your marriage last for ever as one indivisible couple? If you awnser is "YES", then thinks twice before saying "yes"to to that your partner.
While in this process, give yourself a quiet moment to reflect over what you are about to go into. Remember, the saying; "All That Glitters Are Not Gold",ask yourself "why am i in this relationship ?, am i in it because i want to get married at all cost--meaning( mortgaging your life) ?. Do i really love this person i want to spend my whole life with and if i do, what kind of love do i have for him/her? Would i be ready to cope even in time of difficulties ? Is it because his/her pocket is rich enough to carter for my needs? Is wealth the centre of the whole game?, Ask yourself what was that thing that makes you love your partner, or was it he/she is hansome/beautiful,tall, slim fit,mode of dressing, movement,the way the person speaks, active in the bed, physical appearance,etc.? Just find out, there must be reason thy you love that your partner and holds firm to that , and your marriage will last for live or on the contrary, everything would be history.
Just be careful and know what you really need from a man/woman before making a choice and do all you can to see your marriage or relationship succeed.
DON`T choose a partner based solely on attraction. Attraction is important yes, but it can also be dangerous. when we feel a strong sense for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignor our instincts, leading us to overlook a potential partner`s deadly fault that could spell doom down the road. If you ever found yourself in a relationship that is dragging down,this is propbably why. Remember,"All That Glitters Are Not Gold"
Don`t choose to be with a partner out of desperation, fear of loneliness or because you are in need. If a person is looking for someone to take care of him/her, it sometimes leaves a negative effect on what that person will think of you. Remember, THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU JUMP IN. Thank you.

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